"Puts into a nutshell the answer to every problem in every marriage." -- Charles and Frances Hunter, Internationally Known Evangelists Authors of more than 50 books

"It truly is the secret to having the most successful marriage anyone ever imagined. Most powerful!" -- Pastors Lance & Vernell Alexander, Rivers of Life Christian Ministries, Shreveport, LA

"Your honesty and counseling approach cut through the defenses and denial that so may troubled couples have. Your wise counsel has clearly brought couples out of the blame game and helped them address the more healing route of "What can I do differently that will make the relationship better?" -- James Mallory, M.D., Atlanta Counseling Center, Atlanta, GA Author: Battle of the Sexes

"Your testimony is truly from the real world, so many Christian couples will be able to relate to your heartaches, and will benefit from your journey to healing and restoration; because of it others can also learn to enjoy marriage as God intended. -- Kevin & Joy Wilson, Founders of Book22.com, "Enhancing Your Intimate Relationship," Ventura, California

"Both Joel and Kathy speak candidly, opening the hearts and sharing and confessing their deepest hurts in the hope that they can help other couples save their marriages and even make them joyous! Their honesty is so refreshing as it takes true faith to be pastor(s) in their church yet so publicly risk the expressing of their testimonies in order to use their trials to help others triumph." -- Sherri and Michael, MyBelovedsGarden.net

"There are too many marriages ... YES even "Christian" Marriage going "down the tubes"! For the past Forty Five years whatever "marriage counseling" was offered DID NOT WORK!! (I am living proof!) .... Joel and Kathy have a new "oblique" on the dilemma! They are saving hundreds ... maybe even thousands of marriages across the country! Whatever was "tried" in the past .... did not work. It's time for unity .... the churches to come together and tackle this problem "head on". Joel and Kathy are "just" a couple that is living the perfect marriage ... and is sharing their success .... they were on the verge of Divorce after an adulterous affair! Today, they act like two teenagers in love! The "Church" NEEDS to hear their message! I wish I heard it 13 years ago! It could have averted my first divorce. I wish I heard it 6 years ago ... it could have averted my second divorce!" Blessings, John